Custody, Access and Covid19 In the recently decided case of Ribeiro vs Wright, the Ontario Superior Court of Justice affirmed that parties with a pre-existing separation agreement or court order in place with respect to access rights cannot unilaterally change their access schedule on the basis of COVID-19. The court stated that parties should not attempt to take advantage of the current challenges in relation to COVID-19 and seek to unilaterally not put in place different schedules for access. Parents who share custody of their children should continue to respect custody agreements during Covid-19 and continue their split parenting arrangements with their former spouse unless there is specific evidence that the child’s health is at risk. CHALLENGES AFFECTING PARENTS & ACCESS DURING COVID-19 There are some challenges in relation to access rights and issues that affect family law matters in relation to COVID-19 – including but not limited to the following: Parents who are unable to work from home and have to interact with the general public on a regular basis Example: Individuals who are considered to be essential workers (Nurses, Grocery Clerks, etc.) Parents returning home to Canada from abroad who must self isolate for a period of 14-days Parents who fail to comply with social/physical distancing recommendations from public health or parents who fail to take reasonable health precautions in relation to the safety of their children Parents who rely on their own parents for child care EMERGENCY ORDER IN ONTARIO COURTS & FAMILY LAW As Ontario courts are still closed and operating in a virtual capacity due to the emergency order in place currently, courts are continuing to only hear urgent matters on a case-by-case basis. If you have additional questions pertaining to family law matters, access or additional COVID-19 related issues related to family law, feel free to contact the lawyers at Devry Smith Frank LLP to discuss your rights and options. “This article is intended to inform. Its content does not constitute legal advice and should not be relied upon by readers as such. If you require legal assistance, please see a lawyer. Each case is unique and a lawyer with good training and sound judgment can provide you with advice tailored to your specific situation and needs.” By Fauzan SiddiquiBlog, COVID-19, Family LawJune 30, 2020September 29, 2020
My Boyfriend Has Been Denied Access to His Son. Can He Fight for More Rights to Him? My boyfriend’s ex-girlfriend had his son in late November 2016. He is unable to see his son often and she won’t allow him to have him alone as she doesn’t think he can care for him. There is no paperwork in place yet but he’s worried she will ruin his life if he does not comply with everything she wants and says. Is there any advice for this situation on how he could get more rights to his son or how he should go about this? Answer by John P. Schuman, C.S. Unfortunately, young mothers refusing to allow their child’s father to be involved in their young child’s life is a very common situation. Young mothers often feel that they need to protect the child and only a mother can provide appropriate care for an infant or young child. That approach is not consistent with the current research in social science and child development. Even at a very young age, children benefit from having both parents actively involved in their lives. Most family court judges recognize this. One parent refusing to allow the other parent to have any contact with a young child is a situation where it is possible to get an emergency family court order. It is very important for children to have frequent, meaningful contact with both parents. That means both parents should be involved in feeding, bathing, and other parenting tasks (not just playing), at a minimum, several times a week. Due to young children’s short memories and perception of time, the frequency of contact is very important – more important than long periods of time. Although young age is not necessarily a reason why a child should not be spending overnights with both parents. What is often best for a young child is to allow that child to develop a secure attachment to both parents through having both parents actively and frequently involved in the child’s care. Denying a child contact with one parent, or exposing the child to a lot of conflicts, especially at a young age, can lead to long term problems. In order to keep tensions and conflict down between parents, because conflict between parents is very harmful to the child, and to provide the best hope for a joint custody situation, it is best for parents to try parenting mediation, with a parenting professional, before going to court. The parenting professional can help the parents understand the children’s needs and help them work out a parenting plan that best suits the child’s needs at each stage of development. If the other parent will never agree to mediation, it is still important to propose it because judges get angry at parents who refuse to try to work out things for the kids without a fight. Before a parent goes to court, it is important for that parent to understand that judges base decisions on what is in the child’s best interest. There are several factors that judges consider when deciding what is in a child’s best interest. Before going to court, it is important for a parent to have evidence that what they want is in the child’s best interest. It is also important for separated parents to understand the difference between different types of parenting arrangements and when each will work best for the child. That will help them come up with the best parenting plan for the child or, if they have to go to court, to know what types of orders the judge will be inclined to make. But, if a parent is not seeing a child at all, or is not having meaningful contact with a child, then that parent should see a family lawyer right away to know your options and how best to ensure the child has the best possible relationship with both parents. You can get a lot more information about Ontario Family Law issues, including a further explanation of child custody and parenting legal issues by downloading this $9.99 e-book for Kindle, Kobo, or iPad/iPhone/Mac or ordering the paperback version. But, to keep out of trouble, it is always best to speak with a good family law lawyer. John Schuman is a Certified Specialist in Family Law. He is the partner managing the Family Law Group at Devry Smith Frank LLP, a full service law firm located near Eglinton and the Don Valley Parkway in Toronto. Learn more about John! Call him at 416-446-5080 or 416-446-5847 or email john.schuman@devrylaw.ca Listen to the Ontario Family Law Podcast! Please note that this is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice to you. Legal advice pertaining to your particular situation can only be provided by a lawyer who has met with you to obtain all pertinent background information necessary to give you a formal legal opinion. For legal advice contact one of our family law lawyers. “This article is intended to inform and entertain. Its content does not constitute legal advice and should not be relied upon by readers as such. If you require legal assistance, please see a lawyer. Each case is unique and a lawyer with good training and sound judgment can provide you with advice tailored to your specific situation and needs.” By Fauzan SiddiquiBlog, Family LawFebruary 28, 2017June 18, 2020
Denied Access To Your Child? Here’s What You Need To Know Breaking up, as they say, is hard to do. Where there are children in the equation, the question of a parent’s access to the child(ren) can add substantially to the hardship. All too often, the animosity associated with separation leads one parent to frustrate the other’s access to the child(ren). In the following, we discuss what a parent who is denied access to their child(ren) can do, and provide some context to help make sense of this situation. In a perfect world, parents would put aside their differences and cooperate to ensure both parties play an active role in their children’s lives. One way of doing this involves the parents executing a contract as to custody and access – namely, a “parenting agreement” or “separation agreement.” Such agreements are valid and enforceable when in writing, signed, witnessed and where both parties have received independent legal advice. One helpful resource that can work with families toward reaching an agreement, is a parenting mediator. A mediator acts as a neutral third party who works to facilitate productive communication between parties, with a view to settling issues including access. Mediated resolutions must be voluntarily accepted by both sides. While both come at a price, failing to agree and escalating the conflict can often prove much more costly. If parents cannot come to an agreement without assistance, or if the agreement is not being observed, they often turn to the courts and to legal professionals. This is where the experienced family law practitioners at Devry Smith Frank LLP enter the fray. To be clear, there are circumstances where a parent is justified in denying the other parent access. This will be the case where a parent presents a protection risk to the child(ren) – for example, where an access parent is abusive, does not maintain a safe accommodation for the child(ren), or is intoxicated. However, where access is denied without justification, a parent can seek remedies from the court. In applying any remedy, the courts’ paramount consideration is the “best interests of the child.” The courts will not enforce or approve a parenting agreement, in terms of access or otherwise, unless it accords with that principle. While the “best interests of the child” are not precisely defined, courts must consider specific factors – these include facilitating the child’s access to the other parent.[1] Generally, the courts frown upon parents who obstruct the other parent’s access to their children. They have even taken away custody from such parents. Where a parent is not able to exercise access with their child, and where another parent is preventing the access from taking place, a parent can bring a motion seeking that the court Order the access. In Ontario, the courts have awarded a parent who was denied access the costs incurred in attempting to exercise access. The courts may also award compensatory access, so that the access time denied to a parent will be made up. Alongside a court Order dictating that they will have access, the court will award the party who succeeds at the motion their costs – that is, the losing party will have to pay for a portion or all of the other side’s legal costs. In more severe cases, a parent may disregard even a court order. When a court order for access is not obeyed – “deliberately or willfully or knowingly” – the offending party can be found in contempt under the Family Law Rules (O. Reg. 114/99). A contempt order is sought by motion, and can result in fines, other penalties, or even imprisonment. Again, because the best interests of the child are the primary consideration, the courts are reluctant to criminally charge or even fine a parent. This is an exceptional remedy, meant to convey clearly the importance of obeying court orders. In exceptionally rare circumstances, a parent denied access may also seek an apprehension order. The parent, or the police, are thereby empowered by the court to apprehend the child. It must be emphasized that, given the immense psychological harm a child could be exposed to, a court is extremely unlikely to consider this to be in the best interests of the child(ren). Indeed, such orders are all but unheard of. Instead, a court asked to make this order may give the parent denying access another chance to comply, perhaps under threat of consequences for remaining in contempt of an order. Ultimately, Courts must balance the desire to ensure parents’ access and respect for court orders, with the desire to avoid exacerbating tension and financial trouble within families. Overlaying all other considerations, are the best interests of the child. They therefore tend to gradually raise the stakes, escalating from warnings and compensatory cost awards to the more severe contempt orders where all else fails. When faced with a denial of access, it is important to remain composed and resist taking matters into one’s own hands. Emergency motions are available in certain circumstances. If there is a genuine risk of harm, the police are also available in the immediate term. Longer term solutions, however, will require engaging with the courts. Navigating court processes without assistance can be complex and stressful. If you are facing a denial of access, or any other family law issue, please feel free to contact Devry Smith Frank LLP. ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ [1] Among other factors, the courts consider the ability of those seeking access to the child to act as a parent. An integral part of acting as a parent is the ability to facilitate access to those for whom the child has “love, affection and emotional ties”. In the vast majority of cases, this includes both parents. By Fauzan SiddiquiBlog, Family LawDecember 12, 2016November 14, 2020